“I had been enjoying a truly fascinating and rewarding career as a psychotherapist for many years helping people change their thoughts and behaviours for a better life experience.

During that time, it became clear to me that whatever is going on in your life, if something is affecting your mental health, your physical health, your finances, your work, or your relationships, it’s almost surely going to affect sex, and your relationship too. However, I found that very few clients brought up their sexual issues in general therapy and very few talking therapists are trained to work with sexual issues, so fail to ask their clients the relevant questions.

In 2013 I made the decision to specialise in working with sex and relationship issues and embarked on a post graduate qualification. In 2016, the North Hampshire Clinic was opened.

I have always had a very healthy outlook on sex, I am sex-positive, and I approach my work with kindness, empathy, and a little bit of humour, where it’s appropriate!”

“There is such a resistance in our society to talk & learn about sex, which means that good resources are not widely available to us. When I first started this journey, I struggled to find information that wasn’t superficial, designed to shock, or make me feel inadequate. I found out information in my 30s that I needed in my teens.

I am a strong believer that understanding ourselves as sexual beings is a big part of finding out about ourselves, and fundamental to our health and wellbeing.

Sex education is not a ‘nice to have’ but rather a ‘must have’, and I’m passionate about creating a sex-positive world, for me, for my children’s future and for everyone!”

Having experienced my own fair share of self-doubt, procrastination, and annoying habits too. I became passionate about empowering people to make changes in their lives, as effectively and creatively as possible.

Human Givens therapy combines the most effective aspects of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), advanced coaching techniques and change visualisation. The results are surprisingly swift and lasting – making your therapy refreshingly good value, short term, and solution focused.

My clients seek help for all kinds of stresses and difficulties. Many of these clients are men, and many of their difficulties relate to sex. premature ejaculation, erection difficulties and, to a lesser extent, delayed ejaculation. This is an area in which I now specialise.