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A fantastic exercise to think about what you want from sex, what you want to explore, experience and what you don’t!

The information you’ll discover about yourself will help you discuss with others where your boundaries fall.

If you’re struggling with anything in your sex life or relationships, curious to learn more, or just want to feel more confident and fulfilled, this is a safe space to talk. Whether you’re looking for support, guidance, or just a chance to talk and explore things in a more positive way, we’re here to help you take that first step.

There are some fantastic books available, for all sorts of sex and relationship guidance, education and pleasure. We’ve included a few below, these are our favourites right now, there are lots more out there if you are a bookworm! We’ve popped the link to Amazon below each for you.

Why we love it? Focuses on female sexuality, desire, and arousal. Very accessible and body-positive. This is a hugely popular book, research-based and easy to read.

Why we love it? This book was literally written to close the ‘orgasm gap’. It combines humour, research, and actionable advice for anyone with or without a clitoris.

Why we love it? This book is fun, nonjudgmental, and wildly informative. Covers a wide range of sexual topics, anatomy, communication, and more.

Why we love it? This book is about mindset and dynamics, a deep and poetic look at why long-term couples often struggle with passion, and how to rekindle it.

Why we love it? This book explores consent and touch in a radically thoughtful way. Great for developing better intimacy and understanding of boundaries and pleasure.

Why we love it? An insightful look into the art (and importance) of oral sex, foreplay and pleasuring a woman. With fun, informative and practical step-by-step instructions to guide you along the way.

Couple Friendly | Research Based | Open and Honest

Recommended in Elle, Men’s Health, Vogue, GQ and more, OMGYES is on a mission to break taboos and make understanding female pleasure more open and honest.

OMGYES is full of videos and how-to guides to explore. Check out their website for examples of what is inside.

Pornography is a great resource, when used well, to find more pleasure, for ideas. There are some great websites out there, with ‘ethical porn’ which means you are supporting the actors and ensuring that everything you are watching is consented to. These are two of our favourite sites!

Couple Friendly | Diverse | Equal Pleasure | Equal Pay

Specialising in cinematic adult movies shot from the female and queer gaze, made with an ethical production process. They aim to make hot, erotic moviies that show relatable sex and bodies. Creating a sex-positive space for all genders to reclaim their sexuality, pleasure and desires.

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Couple Friendly | Diverse | Mutual Pleasure | Women Focused

In a world where sex is positive and not taboo, JoyBear brings you a collection of erotic films designed to arouse and inspire you, with a natural approach to sex, which is safe and fun.