These questions are to help you reflect on your own experiences and attitudes towards sexual fantasies, to invite self-exploration, encourage open-mindedness toward one’s own desires, and help challenge societal, personal stigmas, guilt or shame surrounding sexual fantasies.
The video mentions that fantasies are a healthy aspect of human sexuality. How do you feel about the idea of fantasising? Do you think it’s a natural and important part of sexual arousal? Why or why not?
This lesson talks about fantasies being a “playground in your head.” Do you find it empowering to know that your fantasies are entirely your own and you can explore them guilt-free? How does that change the way you view them?
Do you think your fantasies align with common categories like power/control, group sex, or novelty? Or are your fantasies something different altogether?
It’s mentioned that sexual fantasies can break societal taboos and free us from gender roles. Do you think your fantasies have ever allowed you to explore something you wouldn’t normally be able to express in real life? How does that make you feel?
Do you agree with the idea that having certain fantasies (like cheating or submission) doesn’t mean you want to act on them in real life? Why or why not?
Do you think that sharing certain fantasies with a partner could enhance intimacy and sexual connection? Have you ever shared a fantasy with someone, or would you be open to doing so? Why or why not?
